Early Teenage Girl Daughters.

[Anny Road]

I've got one and she is driving me round the fucking bend.

Intelligent pleasurable sporty fit 10 year old has turned into a stay in bed till 2pm 'hate you' person who to be honest I am starting to dislike.

Yeah she is my kid but for example I walked off the course today playing golf with the lads because she had to be somewhere I get home and it is still in bed giving me shite for waking it up.

 

I know I was the same and I know you have to suck it up but short of battering her I am at my end.

Boys I recon I could handle cos they would get a slap but girls, fuck me?

[Lario]

Boys wreck you house, girls wreck your head!

 

When you have a boy, you have to watch out for the little prick. When you have a girl, you have to watch out for every other little prick!

 

Etc.

[KMD7]

Mate I share your pain. My little one is 17 in a few months and it can't come quick enough. I watched her turn from this beautiful kid who never gave me a bit of trouble into a little monster efrom the age of 13-16. Nearly drove me and the mrs demented. All I can say is that it does get better and mine seems to be back to her lovely kind old self again. Fucking hormones and peer pressure are a cunt at that age. Just have to hang in there and don't let her away with too much

[PestiRed]

Boarding school suddenly sounds like a cracking idea

[Bjornebye]

Disconnect the wi-fi everytime she acts a cunt. 

 

Best bit of parenting I ever heard of was by mate mate to his 13 year old son. The kid lives with his mum but Justin has him every other weekend. Decent relationship with the mum like they just didn't work out as a couple. Anyway the kids school ring his mum and say he is being a little shit in class to one of his teachers. Justin goes round that night after school with a pair of crocks he bought from primary in the kids shoe size. Put them on the table and told him he is wearing them to school for the next 2 weeks. Kid bursts into tears so Justin says he needs to go in tomorrow , apologise sincerely and then the second he steps out of line again he is wearing the crocks to school. Needless to say the kid has been good as gold since. 

 

Cant think of anything worse than that. I am glad my dad stuck to just twitting me instead of fucking with my clobber. 

[cloggypop]

Keep Spybee away from this thread.

[Red Phoenix]

I've got one and she is driving me round the fucking bend.

Intelligent pleasurable sporty fit 10 year old has turned into a stay in bed till 2pm 'hate you' person who to be honest I am starting to dislike.

Yeah she is my kid but for example I walked off the course today playing golf with the lads because she had to be somewhere I get home and it is still in bed giving me shite for waking it up.

 

I know I was the same and I know you have to suck it up but short of battering her I am at my end.

Boys I recon I could handle cos they would get a slap but girls, fuck me?

 

 

Introduce her to punk, metal, and anarchism. It's the only way.

[Anny Road]

Introduce her to punk, metal, and anarchism. It's the only way.

Fuck the last thing I want her to be is like me. She will burn the house down.

[Red Phoenix]

Fuck the last thing I want her to be is like me. She will burn the house down.

 

 

Hahaha, ok well that's me out of suggestions.

[Anny Road]

Disconnect the wi-fi everytime she acts a cunt. 

 

Best bit of parenting I ever heard of was by mate mate to his 13 year old son. The kid lives with his mum but Justin has him every other weekend. Decent relationship with the mum like they just didn't work out as a couple. Anyway the kids school ring his mum and say he is being a little shit in class to one of his teachers. Justin goes round that night after school with a pair of crocks he bought from primary in the kids shoe size. Put them on the table and told him he is wearing them to school for the next 2 weeks. Kid bursts into tears so Justin says he needs to go in tomorrow , apologise sincerely and then the second he steps out of line again he is wearing the crocks to school. Needless to say the kid has been good as gold since. 

 

Cant think of anything worse than that. I am glad my dad stuck to just twitting me instead of fucking with my clobber. 

'Ive done the different wifi password everyday'

She does not give a fuck. I'm doing it again though as we speak.

[Red Phoenix]

Actually, it's weird. I've never had kids and am pretty much totally clueless, but to be honest? I can usually relate to them, and I suggest you break down the parent/kid barrier and just be yourself. You can probably relate to her feelings in some way, maybe she's just waking up to the fact that the world is fucked up. The more you be yourself and try to get on with her as a friend as well as a parent, I'd guess the more you'll be ok.

[Red Phoenix]

I said what I did in the last post because my Dad always tried to treat me like an adult, right from being a young kid. He wasn't into the treating kids as kids thing and I always got on with him and respected him for that. He was himself, and it just seemed more honest and it worked. That's the only experience of this type of thing that I have really.

[Champ]

Red Phoenix, I assume you are male and on that basis your behaviour as a kid and your interactions with your parents have no bearing on this thread.

 

My eldest is a boy and has never given us a bit of gyp and has always been straightforward in his relationships with us. I thought I was doing all right at this parenting malarkey. No2 is, however, an entirely different story. I love her to bits but would happy wrong her neck most days. We have no idea what goes on in her head and she shows no inclination to share any of it with us, which is probably just as well really.

My only philosophy is to enjoy the good bits, and there are many, if fleeting, ones and console myself that it will get better.

[Red Phoenix]

Red Phoenix, I assume you are male and on that basis your behaviour as a kid and your interactions with your parents have no bearing on this thread.

 

 

If you be yourself with your kids, it must do some good. I just think parents erect this bullshit barrier sometimes that's pointless. But yes, there's often a point for it at times, so I can get that too, and will fuck off out of the thread.

 

edit : I just think it's sad too, a parent not being able to relate to what a kid is going through. Glad I haven't had any yet, and probably won't do, at least in this life. Hope it works out for you both, Anny.

[Anubis]

It's not often I'd turn to America for advice, but......

 

[Champ]

If you be yourself with your kids, it must do some good. I just think parents erect this bullshit barrier sometimes that's pointless. But yes, there's often a point for it at times, so I can get that too, and will fuck off out of the thread.

 

edit : I just think it's sad too, a parent not being able to relate to what a kid is going through. Glad I haven't had any yet, and probably won't do, at least in this life. Hope it works out for you both, Anny.

I'm not sure you read my reply with the humour that was intended. I wasn't meaning to be rude and I'm sure the parents of boys and girls will absolutely understand where I'm coming from.

 

Equally, I think I'm pretty in tune with my kids; only missy is one of those kids/people who bottles things up when sharing might be the better option.

[ZonkoVille77]

Women are fucking mad no matter the age.

[Guest Super Sub]

Women are fucking mad no matter the age.

I'll second that.

[Red Phoenix]

I'm not sure you read my reply with the humour that was intended. I wasn't meaning to be rude and I'm sure the parents of boys and girls will absolutely understand where I'm coming from.

 

 

It's cool, I've read your posts on here for a while obviously, I think you're sound and know that you didn't mean anything in a bad way. I've also been drinking a bit with it being weekend, so didn't get the humour as much as I probably would've done normally!

[KMD7]

 

 

Equally, I think I'm pretty in tune with my kids; only missy is one of those kids/people who bottles things up when sharing might be the better option.

This.

 

[RedKnight]

It's cool, I've read your posts on here for a while obviously, I think you're sound and know that you didn't mean anything in a bad way. I've also been drinking a bit with it being weekend, so didn't get the humour as much as I probably would've done normally!

 

Standard.

[Red Phoenix]

Standard.

 

Not really, and you can check my posts over the last couple of months if you really want to. I'm 36 now, I get that being wasted isn't the answer to life's problems, even if depressed, and I'm trying to sort my head out. I do actually, for the most part, prefer being sober too. Life has a natural high at times, and it's way better than being fucking wasted. It also doesn't leave you with bad hangovers, etc.

 

Or did you mean Russian Standard, the vodka? If so, you should get over here and share the booze.

[Red Phoenix]

I don't know why, but RedKnight has a classic ability to reel me in like nobody else on this site. I think he knows it and does it on badness. He's clearly a meanie.

[littletedwest]

They grow out of it. Girlfriend's daughter was a little shit at that age, seven years later she was okay.

same with my sister.

[Cardie]

I don't know why, but RedKnight has a classic ability to reel me in like nobody else on this site. I think he knows it and does it on badness. He's clearly a meanie.

 

Rude.