Getting divorced

[melons]

Crikey, is it worth wondering if she bothered with clean knickers?

 

 

 

I'm 33. I've just had a hard life, honest.

[Hand Shandy]

Eliza Dushku is lovely, and in my mind she's gone Brazilian commando...

 

Oh, and you are younger than me.

 

Three years younger.

[RoboRiise]

marriage is a partnership mate, if you enter into a partnership, you automatically give away your rights to do whatever you want. Every Decision you make has to be a joint one, If/ when you get married will you still go on holiday with the lads every year? Will you go on benders till all hours of the morning every weekend, coming home with lipstick marks on your shirt & stinking of perfume? Stay in bed recovering all day the next day? You just can't do it when your married. Sad, but true, and that's what I was getting at.You sound like your not married, and if you are, you sound like your a selfish cunt!

 

 

[sparta7]

It may be amicable now but theres a good chance it wont stay that way. Do not on any account do or sign anything while you are in a depressed mental state, get proper advice and agree to nothing without it being checked by legal eagles, otherwise you wil get stuffed.

 

Good Luck.

[Unrighteous]

So, have you got to the stage where you are posting naked pics of her on the net, yet? If so, where is our link?

[Markmywords]

I've got a bit of a long term divorce plan up my sleeve if I'm honest.

 

I love my mrs but 75% of the time she's a complete pain in the arse and the older I get the less i listen to her and less i give a shit about her complaints. The main reason we're still together is because we've got young kids so I plan to put up with her until the kids are old enough to cope with us splitting up.

 

Then, when this time has come, I will go and live on my own with my dog, watch a lot of porn and f**ty, play golf, drink loads of beer and not have to listen to the constant moaning that I've been subjected to so far.

 

I'm already looking forward to it.

[AngryOfTuebrook]

[Tyler Durden]

I've got a bit of a long term divorce plan up my sleeve if I'm honest.

 

I love my mrs but 75% of the time she's a complete pain in the arse and the older I get the less i listen to her and less i give a shit about her complaints. The main reason we're still together is because we've got young kids so I plan to put up with her until the kids are old enough to cope with us splitting up.

 

Then, when this time has come, I will go and live on my own with my dog, watch a lot of porn and f**ty, play golf, drink loads of beer and not have to listen to the constant moaning that I've been subjected to so far.

 

I'm already looking forward to it.

 

If ever there was an endorsement for marriage..

[Magic Sponge]

[Liverpool lad]

Any update?

[Navman]

Shit the bed, some of you guys are harsh - I guess I am a fool looking for sympathy from the internet

 

Tom R was absolutely on the money btw.

 

2011 is looking better than 2010 so far, but still aint got the bloddy paperwork through

 

Nice tag - I need to rep that man/woman

[withnail71]

anyone thinking of getting married. dont fucking bother.

[greenoak]

Hi Nav

 

I am in the same boat as you, i split from my ex over 2 years ago, and my wife went into depression and there was no way I could push divorce through then.

 

She now has a fella in background and has sorted herself out a bit so I am now pushing the div through using the 2 year seperation route. I am using a cheap online firm for the div and the financial settlement.

 

I have 2 teenage kids and a few buy to let properties in Liverpool so assets split is complicated, but I think we have just about got there. Looks like I will keep all my pension, and retain my share of the houses, she will get family house in full so kids have a roof over their heads and thats all that matters.

 

Melons was a big help to me early on in my break up. I did not do the go mental thing. I just could not face going anywhere on my own, and no mates as such. Thats what happens when you late 40's and married for 20 years.

 

Had a wonderful gf and went on the best ever holiday with her to Italy. Problem was I had a heart attack and lost focus on everything and broke up with her a few months ago. What a dickhead thing to do. But back togerther again, which is fantastic.

 

My goal is now completing the London Marathon in April as running for British heart foundation. Doing that 11 months after a heart attack is a big thing for me

 

Hang in there mate, it does get easier.

 

Take care and look after yourself, your family and any friends you have .... After all thats all we have got.