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    Withnail mate hang in there. I spent years staying for sake of kids. The result was everyone in the house was miserable / depressed. My wife went into a spiral of depression. I was a miserable angry bastard. I moved out Aug 2008 and moved into my own house in Sept 2008. I am finally starting the divorce using wikivorce service. But thats a non contested cheapo. Shes happy to divorce me. The marriage was dead. Trust was gone. Its sorting the finance and assets thats as hard as fuck. x years of marriage ends up as just numbers of bits of paper. Thats sad as hell. I now have happy kids, people that are happy to have me around as im not a miserable old git anymore. 2 stones lighter and happier than I have been for a long long time. Yes ive had my sad moments living on my own with only itunes for company. Seeing kids every other weekend. Kids will suffer early on, but they pull through. I've now got a fantastic girlfriend who loves me and tells me that every day. Sometimes mate you just got to bite the bullet. My only piece of advice is if you can get your own place and tell the kids this is their house too. Once the kids knew where i was going to live and could see me it made things so much easier. And never ever stop telling them how much you love them, and tell them its not there fault, or its nothing to do with them. take care. Look after yourself and those kids, cos thats all we got...
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    Hi Nav I am in the same boat as you, i split from my ex over 2 years ago, and my wife went into depression and there was no way I could push divorce through then. She now has a fella in background and has sorted herself out a bit so I am now pushing the div through using the 2 year seperation route. I am using a cheap online firm for the div and the financial settlement. I have 2 teenage kids and a few buy to let properties in Liverpool so assets split is complicated, but I think we have just about got there. Looks like I will keep all my pension, and retain my share of the houses, she will get family house in full so kids have a roof over their heads and thats all that matters. Melons was a big help to me early on in my break up. I did not do the go mental thing. I just could not face going anywhere on my own, and no mates as such. Thats what happens when you late 40's and married for 20 years. Had a wonderful gf and went on the best ever holiday with her to Italy. Problem was I had a heart attack and lost focus on everything and broke up with her a few months ago. What a dickhead thing to do. But back togerther again, which is fantastic. My goal is now completing the London Marathon in April as running for British heart foundation. Doing that 11 months after a heart attack is a big thing for me Hang in there mate, it does get easier. Take care and look after yourself, your family and any friends you have .... After all thats all we have got.
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    thats a real shame i just joined why not at least try one game, esp as some guys joined stars just to play
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    i saw the screener too As you Bale is awesome. A very simple film but very watchable, avoids going down the rocky road. What a family...
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    windows movie maker is free and will do that job more important is what format is it in now and what the final film going to be used for. If powerpoint be careful its very fussy. pm me for more info and help. I might even be able to do it for you...
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    horrible phone and horrible tariff. That phone is the size of a brick. Desire HD is much better. I just got the sammy galaxy on 18 month contract 600 mins unlim texts and 500mb data for £25 a month. Their making fuck all out of that deal as its a £300 plus phone
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    My girlfriend is a librian - well assistant librain as her degree is not in librianship. She has worked there for 15 years in Northampton From April this year her annual salary is cut by 2000 to 13600. Dog walkers at a local charity pay more than that. Northampton is shutting lots of its librarys, they are all widely used. The central library has had a massive computer system and building refit but to balance the books sacking tons of staff and forcing salary cuts to those that are lucky enough to keep their job. All the specialist jobs are being axed. Its a fucking disgrace
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    Nope i live a bit south of liverpool but still in uk
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    I did participate last year, in that helps
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    Looks like i fucked up by not putting my name on the list. I have already sorted my disc having spent hours and hours thinking about it. So if the admin can give me a name and address a cd well 3 more like it 2 defo will be posted Thanks
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    I am half way thrug Wolf Hall since finishing our book. Now Wolf Hall is a big book. Maybe I read rather than watch TV. Whats next book please....
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    The fact that I spend more tme in THE GF than the football forum reflects badly on my love of the club, which weakens every week.
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    Overall i enjoyed large chunks of the book, but at times esp with Patient 8262 I was lost in all the physco bable mumbo jumbo. I was not sure about how having 6 main characters would work. Just about I think. I was really not sure how Adrian fitted into the story, the coke snorting, and fondness for various obscenities. Brazenly self-centered but more obnoxious than he realizes, Adrian almost steals the book away. Once we got into the real story of the central council and the power struggle with Madame d'Ortolanvery and the very sexy Mrs. Mulverhill and who side Temudjin Oh would take it was very good. There were passages I felt, I have no idea what all this is on about, and as for the cross world bonking, that just seemed sleazy. Great ending in Venice Well worth the time spent. Not my first Banks book, but a good crossover of the SF style.
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    A month is plenty. Links to an audiobook are much appreciated as thats how i listened rather than read. Good job too with all those languages.....
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    only half way thru. Better get a move on...
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    I would like to see Lucas without the handcuffs on. Rafa had him welded to the halfway line. Lets release the players and let them play with freedom. You will then see a totally different Lucas, and worth way more than 5 mill euros
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    10mill ? half that and I would be delighted.... He runs about a bit and almost nothing else... he has the control and pace of Heskey Would love him to be sold.
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    what did shitty spend last summer 100 mill. another 100 in silva milner botox. Teves is their only world class player, the rest are just better than average They are building a copy of england nat team, a collection of overpaid and underplayed players rather than a team. At least Chelsea build a team and filled in gaps, shiity just seem to be a kid in a sweetshop, have that have this. You wait till Silva has had lumps kicked out of him every week, like Torres does
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    Come on Ghana I want USA out, full or fat retards who know nothing about football. More interested in doing Mexican waves or being shown on the big screen.
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    The odds on england winning this are 3 - 2. Thats insane Against the team at top of group and only needing a draw. Personally I have a chunk on England NOT winning this game
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    Another good day of bets Swiss to lose £25 Portugal to win only £10 a red card in portugal game ( in play after all those yellows ) Spain would not win 3 - 0 £30 bets for tomorrow is Greece to not win £50 and SA not win another £50 dont fancy the mexico game nearly game undone in tennis but serb boy won in the end.
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    tODAY IT WAS Paraguay to win italy to win ivory to not win £50 each so level for day but up enough for my holiday to prague is now paid for will withdraw £300 from my betfair account after brazil game
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    Looks like a case of a team having to win despite the managers selection capello is as bad as maradonna at picking a balanced 11 He fucked up against USA and repeated it again. :wallbutt::wallbutt::wallbutt:
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    well after the Nigerians completely fucking up my balance after losing. Strolling it till that fuck wit got sent off. Never mind the french restored the accound as I had £100 on French not winning. £50 on first 2 games not being draws Not worth betting on England game as odds are rubbish, and we are as bad as the frogs might go with the Germany USA England triple.... £5
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    not betting on argy game but got 50 on greece not winning. Nigeria not great but a very good goalie and greece wont have many attacks. will wait for the outcome before I bet on France game. final bet is 20 on lakers to win NBA final game
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