tbh fella's, i don't understand why your scared of so called 'meatheads', i do boxing (6 times a week) and im now training with men aged 20 to around 40. they are large built men, although me being only 8 and a half stone, helps me more than them. yes being hard is about knowing how, and not being scared of taking a beating, but it easier for small men/boys to use their speed and avoid getting hit at all, a couple of times i'v been jumped, people think because i can box, they can see how 'hard' they are against me, i find, just using boxing motions, and dodging and swerving punches is the best way, one time there was nothing i could do, a man grabbed my jacket and demanded my phone, needless to say, i shite myself, and thaught 'hang on, its my fuckin phone you bastard', which got me angry, so i butted the man and ran when he let go.