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This is the first time I've ever made a "help me make a decision in the real world" threads but there's a first time for everything. I'm currently living in a shared house. Have been for about 18 months. Used to be a real good gang in, we'd have decent parties, go out to town and generally had a laugh just drinking tea and watching the telly. Last 6 months it's gone a bit shit. Two of them have gotten together as a couple and now spend most of the time sitting in silence staring into each others eyes. The other long term housemate is the one I got on with the least and we seem to have a never ending cycle of lebanese students staying for 6 weeks at a time. Coupled with this the kids in our street have become increasingly more feral in the last few months, you may recall my Why are some kids so fucking retarded? thread which I've also bumped. Well last night when I was out they were knocking on the door apparently and got caught stealing our wheelie bin by one of the girls who chased them and today we have a smashed window at the back of the house. As a result of this (final straw etc) I have put my notice in to the landlords. It's not their fault the area is shit but if I don't feel I can stay indoors and not have to chase kids and worry about bricks flying through my window I can't justify staying here. As a result I am, rather embarrassingly, moving back in with my parents for a few months, probably until the new year when I will seek a new abode. My bird currently lives in a nice enough house in Tuebrook with a friend who is moving out around the end of the year. She knew I was unhappy with where I am (even before the last few days) and has said I could move in with her. Now we've been seeing each other for over 3 months and it'll be 6ish months if we decide to do this. My question to you GFers is how soon is too soon to make this sort of commitment? It's not like we're buying the house it's rented from one of her friends. I know there's not set rules on this but I would just like to hear some opinions/experiences from the wealth of knowledge that is the GF tl:dr - chance to move in with my bird after 6 months, should I or not?

Going to the games in Boston and Baltimore and was just wondering if anyone knows any good pubs or bars where Reds are likely to congregate??

Sky are reporting the John W Henry has been taken to hospital after a fall on his yacht. Anyone know anymore. Get well soon

I'm getting married tomorrow, can't wait.

I've just been stung on the fleshy underpart of my foot by a bee/hornet that was dossing about on my kitchen floor. In December. No need la

Well almost... Last night whilst getting it on with the missus, we were getting a bit rough and really going for it. As I went to go in she bucked back and my dear lord the noise I heard will never ever leave me. Its happened in the past but this noise made me think it had gone, I couldnt even look at it. It didnt snap but the noise put me off the night and now i'm imagining little twinges. Can you bruise it as opposed to breaking it in two?

Off for two nights on Saturday, any of our Irish contingent have any pearls of wisdom on what to do and where to go? Nice one