You seem to be labouring under a few delusions here. This isn't something I have pulled out my arse to bash transgender people, its women, educated women with a long history of feminist action and thought, having very real concerns about the attack on their beliefs, from men. At no point have I assumed to speak for all transgender people, yet you seem more than.comfortable to do so. You envisage a situation of hardship and struggle and presume that it covers all the bases and all people involved, it doesn't. Yet again, there is another man telling feminists and women what they should believe, what they should accept and what the rules are.
You might think its accepted wisdom for trans people to be accepted as women in every aspect, but that just isn't the case. Its biologically not true for a start, a rather important distinction when it comes to sexual health/reproduction etc which apparently trans people insist on being included in. Its also not true when they die, they'll be men again. You think that it doesn't denigrate the female sex to shoehorn a man who has been living as a woman for a whole year into their psychic, physical, emotional and political arenas, but there are many who do. You're insisting that you, and these recently ex men know better and they aren't allowed an opinion. The very word transgender implies something other than male or female doesn't it? Your insistence that it exclusively mean one or the other is absolutely not your right.
Fuck you for your inability to read and fuck you for your lazy assumptions.