Just over 2 weeks ago my brother text saying he needed to speak to me face to face. I told him to come over to the house and he turned up 30 minutes later. He gave me his phone and i stared down at a message via facebook from an ex basically stating that i had a 6 year old son i knew nothing about.
To cut a long story short and after 2 of the worst weeks of my life i had a DNA test and it confirmed that what she was saying was true.
I am happily living with my Girlfriend and our 2 gorgeous daughters.
I am now faced with some pretty tough dilemmas and have to make some life changing decisions.
Can anyone offer up any advice if they have been in my situation or that of the child i now know i have?
Obviously i want to avoid as much stress and disruption to the lad as possible while taking in to consideration my existing family too.
With no manual as to what to do in this situation i would greatly appreciate any advice you can give me.......Thanks