Divorce - pros & cons?

[mgw100]

Regardless of the legal principles, the practical implications of it means change is needed. The requirement for proof of infidelity or unreasonable behaviour just leads to unnecessary antagonism.

[mattyq]

Marriage at its most basic is a legal contract between 2 people so it's entirely correct it should be protected in law

[Nunavut Patrick]

What are the rules where you live?

Where I live it's one year seperation and you can go to family court on 'uncontested divorce day' and file and 30 days later it's done.

 

There are two grounds for divorce in Canada- broken down beyond snd reasonabke grounds for repair (proven by living apart for one calendar year) and proof of adultery or physical/mental abuse.

[Anubis]

Most people go on the behaviour ground, but I think the issue here is they grew apart, separated, but he's big on Christian values and wouldn't consent after 2 years of separation.

[stringvest]

Most people go on the behaviour ground, but I think the issue here is they grew apart, separated, but he's big on Christian values and wouldn't consent after 2 years of separation.

 

 

she should go on a fucking spreee

[Fowlers God]

Happy 6th wedding Anniversary to me !!

[VladimirIlyich]

Two years of living apart,regardless of consent,should be more than enough. As long as the person who wants it covers certain costs.

[lifetime fan]

If I sell the flat and give her £30k she won’t start divorce proceedings yet and might one day (but not for a very long time) give me another chance.

[Jose Jones]

lifetime fan, on 03 Aug 2018 - 08:43 AM, said:

 

If I sell the flat and give her £30k she won’t start divorce proceedings yet and might one day (but not for a very long time) give me another chance.

Deal of the decade that mate.

[cloggypop]

Don't burn your bridges

[lifetime fan]

Don't burn your bridges

 

A man can’t walk on burnt bridges.

[lifetime fan]

Deal of the decade that mate.

 

Fuck that.

[Jose Jones]

lifetime fan, on 03 Aug 2018 - 09:19 AM, said:

 

Fuck that.

Yeah, I was being sarcastic.

[lifetime fan]

Yeah, I was being sarcastic.

 

I knew that mate. Just difficult to tell her to go shove the deal up her cunt when I want to save the marriage.

[littletedwest]

It's an unreasonable offer though mate, defo not a deal you should take

[A Red]

When you are offered a deal, of any sort, the marriage is over. She wants it over.

 

Keep your pride, dont make any more attempts to save it just get out of it quick with a 50/50 split.

[ZonkoVille77]

Send her a dick pic. It'll work, trust me.

[Paulie Dangerously]

If I sell the flat and give her £30k she won’t start divorce proceedings yet and might one day (but not for a very long time) give me another chance.

 

Are you married to Karen Brady? 

[Rico1304]

If I sell the flat and give her £30k she won’t start divorce proceedings yet and might one day (but not for a very long time) give me another chance.

She’s not entitled to that. Tell her to fuck right off.

[Captain Turdseye]

Send her a dick pic. It'll work, trust me.

It doesn’t even have to be your dick.

[Jenson]

I knew that mate. Just difficult to tell her to go shove the deal up her cunt when I want to save the marriage.

 

If she's come up with that deal as a serious proposal, as hard as it is to accept I think you know the writing is on the wall mate.

[Red_or_Dead]

If I sell the flat and give her £30k she won’t start divorce proceedings yet and might one day (but not for a very long time) give me another chance.

Sounds like blackmail to me!

[lifetime fan]

Sounds like blackmail to me!

 

 

She knows I don't want to sell the flat and I reckon she isn't entitled to that much money, so she's dangling a carrot to get the money and she'll be off.

 

Desperately been trying to go down the route of solicitors but I can't see any other way to be honest. 

[Red_or_Dead]

She knows I don't want to sell the flat and I reckon she isn't entitled to that much money, so she's dangling a carrot to get the money and she'll be off.

 

Desperately been trying to go down the route of solicitors but I can't see any other way to be honest. 

It really sounds like she's trying to have you off mate, don't know the ins and outs of it though.  Have you access to your past bank/mortgage statements so you can brush away her claims for that amount?

[lifetime fan]

The flat is in my name only, she has contributed to bills and the mortgage and paid for the wedding/honeymoon.